Families are greatest gift of life, and the relation built between parent and children in phenomenal in this entire world. You cannot find any who love you more than your parents. Both mother and father love their child throughout their life. I am a mother of a sweet baby girl. After being mother, I saw my child in every child, even in kittens I saw reflection of my baby. So like mothers, father also love their children so much.
They care for them, a father want’s to complete every good wish of his children. He treats them as glory of his eyes. I am lucky, I also got such parents. But in our society, and most probably in every society. We see, listen about thousands of cases in which children lost their life’s, because of their parents. Sometime, they became mentally disturbed, when their parents doesn’t treat them well. Being a parent, it is a great responsibility for both woman and man. After you have a child, both of them have to change their selves. Many things like, behavior, choices, your body language, your language. Your daily routine. Like things that a harm your child in any way. You have to stop or change them.
My mother told me that she was fond of music. Here brother gifted her a small sound system, so that after her marriage she can listen music. She put that system in kitchen and use to listen songs, and radio while working in kitchen. I am first child of my parents. One day she sees I am singing song, rather than studying. That day, she stopped. After that very moment as a mother. She sacrifice her utmost desire, and never ever listen songs, radio or see’s television again. For what? Just for her children, to give them a clean environment, where they can study. They can learn good habits. They develop like a good person. Now I am one step away from my doctoral degree. Just because of my parents.
Another major sacrifice which my parents, both my mom and dad make for all of us.
We used to live in a small town, where people are not so educated, there are not so good. School and education system there. So my both parents decided to live from there, my father home town. Where he was born, lived and raised. He left his home town, his parents, his family, and his friends. Just for our future. My mother agreed to live with her in every city where my father will be posted, as my father is in government sector. Every time they were asked to move to next city, they packed things, leave their new, strong relations and came to next city. They choose best schoolings for all of us. Me and my siblings. Now we all are young. We all are at our best. I am a researcher of math, my younger sister are also doing great in studies, one is mathematician, one is educationist, agriculturist. So my parent’s got whatever they have sacrificed in our success.
I know, every time, when one of us came home. With a medal or a cup, trophy in our hand. It makes them proud. They felt like on sky. I wish, I can do more for them, give them all which they have lost, ignored, forgetting just because of us. It’s their time know and now it’s our time to sacrifice for them. This is a story of our family system. Which we have in our society. Though there are many bad stories, out there. Things that should not being done. Positive stories, to vanish the odd. So, when parents don’t think about their children, like mostly they have issues which each other. They fight in front of child. They don’t know, but these fight’s put a great impact on their children personality. These things can make them hurt. Mentally disturbed and so much.
If as a parent you took of your one child more than other, it will also bring bad effect on your child. I had seen many mentally disturbed parents. They have so badly, as they can, killings, murders but when you study the history. It all started fights. In my opinions every bad thing is a society, when you try to see on the root. The root will be family system. End the family system, let them all free is not the solution. Try to give good example of parenting. There should be lectures or parenting courses about it. Put awareness about parenting. As woman and man. Both of them have to understand the responsibility of them. This is a very important thing. Delivering a child is easy, but to raise a child at his best in so difficult. Families, this all where everything can start. If every bad thing is starting from here. Then every good thing also starts from families. Educate your children, both boy and girl. Education doesn’t mean only schooling. Informal education, tell them about good and bad. Try make your child a good person. Truly if every mother and father try to give best to their children, forgetting about them issues. If they starting live for their children.
Well one day lighten up whole world with love, care and humanity.