People don’t appreciate you, you would have felt that all of your life but do you had appreciate anyone ever? The greatest dilemma of our society is that we don’t want to do anything for others when we are wanting everything for us. Always on Facebook twitter we come across many life quotes which says that you deserved to be loved and etc… People cry and are always like ” nobody is my friend nobody loves me ” why don’t you become friend of someone why don’t you love? Why everyone wants to be loved when they themselves are not loving anyone?
What you give is what you get. If you are giving kindness you will get it. But if you are being kind and expect the whole world to salute you than you are so wrong and if you are loving someone and you want them to love the way as you do… You are again highly mistaken… For not anyone is like you no one can become you and you can’t become like someone else… This is the beauty of nature we are like different but most of us don’t want to become like themselves… People around us do so much good things but we just don’t want to give a compliment… Like if you are married or you are in some kind of relationship you can give compliments it’s your power! Your wife have spent three hours on her face her hairstyle her clothes why? She is not going into some kind of fashion show she does so because this is her way of expressing her emotions this is the way she shows her love so when she do so appreciate her tell her that you likes her makeup her dress ..
If someone at your home cooks something you have no idea how much she would have thought about what to cook how to cook how many websites she had searched how many people she had contacted to find out the recipe and finally the dish is ready and you say like OH!! Dear I just had dinner with my friends… You should eat that you should appreciate you should say that it’s tasty and you want more… It’s not romantic its humanity you would do well to yourself by doing well to others.
If you don’t appreciate your mother or wife or father or any family member or your friends than stop expecting that they would appreciate you. It’s not president #Obama or #Malala Yousef Zia or Zain Malik or Salina or some other celebrity who needs your appreciation it’s your loved ones the people you get along the normal people the general public. Appreciate those when you notice that some had changed their style tell them it’s looking nice when someone is doing a little good tell them it’s very good… Spread the word of love not the word of power… Be kind and don’t make yourself a subject of pity for others don’t be like oh no one like me… You are the one to like others… And let your loved be themselves… Let them love you the way they do